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Love and Sex: sorted by name

NameDescriptionWritten
75/25 a simple issue of focus   1/22/03
I Can't Come Anywhere Near You A love song, of sorts. A "can't love" song. 10/15/21
I Want You Tell me now do you love her? 4/9/23
I Want You to Hear Ruminations on a rainy night 11/11/22
If I Lean Towards You, I Will Change Direction And you liked me with this... intention 1/2/24
I Will Wait She said, for you - for me 7/5/23
A Girl About a Kiss A song I made from a sketch I wrote on 3/16/14 9/6/21
A Girl About a Kiss (draft) A draft of a poem that I turned into 'A Girl About a Kiss' on 9/6/2021   3/16/14
A Quiet Room A poem inspired by a friend's drawings   11/17/20
A Song About You A redrafted version - stronger in general appeal 10/10/23
A Song About You (Part One) The first version, which might make a nice album closer somewhere 10/9/23
A Twist Stains where one was two 12/5/23
Acutely Aware ...of the time not spent doing this 12/25/22
Adaptation (Scarborough Fair) A traditional folk song with a 'human' touch 4/27/18
All Around Us And never calls the end 3/22/23
I Stand Alone a song about loss from 'Ruins' 6/7/98
And Again We're going to do it again 3/14/23
And Dance What we should get out and do 9/26/21
Antimony Improvised (to be polished) as needed for side two 2/1/23
Are You Ready? a poem about sex, I suppose   7/6/00
A Box in the Attic A sad poem about losing part of one's life   12/20/17
autumn a little happy seasonal relief   9/6/03
(My) Baby's on a Train Waiting for someone who never came 9/12/23
Barricades We put more effort into jobs we hate 3/28/24
Becomes A poem about growing closer   6/10/18
Before the Mast She wanted me to come again 2/20/24
Bitter/Sweet every word I hear sounds like your name 11/24/22
Born Wrong Another shard of pottery   1/8/21
The Brain The brain is an organ   8/4/16
breathe just another love poem   7/14/01
broken1 an overview of the pain of losing love   8/1/00
broken2 bamboo analogy: the process of healing   8/2/00
By 3 A.M. A poem about self - the self of hope   5/5/21
By the Bay A story about a lovely couple 3/31/22
By What Right? What I was trying to write five days ago 6/29/22
Call Me Soon She said 'Come with me...' 11/29/23
Getting Drunk by All the Right People Both a little bit behind and out in front 9/12/23
A Different Castle A castle after all but still... 7/4/23
A Charming Thought Who leads the rider - or the horse? 6/6/23
Church Then You could go but then what then? 8/6/22
cold still waiting A words and music thing 1/20/21
Come How soon can you come again? 8/15/23
Come Closer A song I found for my birthday 12/7/21
Correspondence The title track of Carbon Copy, about the walking wounded 3/22/22
couples1 about the myths of commitment   8/1/00
crash a poem...   3/13/01
Crimes and Punishment - they serve as part of the infinite loop 2/14/24
Dangerous Another love song. A somewhat abstract love song. 6/7/21
Daphne Smiles Nostalgia for what was but never was 4/16/22
dating1 some problems with our courtship rituals   8/13/00
Delivery Delight is served 4/19/23
Demons & Darkness There's a fine line between troubles and trouble   2/28/18
Dirty Tools A song about getting overheated 1/5/22
Discarded Yet another poem about memories?   9/8/20
Disconnection Forget all the things you think they did 11/9/23
Downtown Show me all that you know 10/29/23
Drugs and Love Drugs are better than love, honey 12/10/23
Dryad Oh my, this is lovely, isn't it?   4/28/21
Elaboration Lateral strategies in tense detail 6/16/21
emotion5 those complicated chemicals in your brain   9/5/01
Enough For Two When we're coming we'll be home 3/27/24
Erasure A song about blankness 11/8/21
eukaryotic an odd little poem   6/8/02
Even Better, Sex You're better than all the rest. 2/22/23
Everybody for Everything Blames everybody for every little thing 11/20/23
everything you were everything including yourself 12/2/22
Exclusion ...of all others 10/13/23
Expression A result of oddly cruel fictions - and even crueler facts   3/13/21
Frequently Asked Questions what it says on the tin   6/23/05
fields an analogy for sexual exploration   5/12/01
Filler (With Just a Little Kiss) It's a tropical rainforest out there 9/16/22
Flowers I thought you were the one 7/8/22
(Out of) Focus A poem from the eye of the storm (2:25 AM)   12/6/17
Fortifications (Letter to Myself) A song for healing 2/22/18
Frost Never forget to protect tender new growth 5/24/23
gender1 a radical view of men and women I hold very dear   8/1/00
gender, sex, and freedom Some people don't want other people to be free 4/11/24
Get Back I took the liberty of writing the rest of the song 11/12/22
Girls & Boys Enjoying some holidays away 4/6/22
A Glimpse of Joy ...that you will never see 1/7/24
Photograph (Good-bye) A lullaby about parting 4/19/18
Good Love an old fashioned blues from 'Ruins' 3/8/02
Habits From a brief lyric note of twenty years ago... today? 11/28/22
Have to Go You don't. Have to go. 12/11/23
How Long Could I erase your presence? 8/5/23
If You Remember Another journey into classic folk 10/13/22
Impressions of a Sunset a song about loss from 'Ruins' 9/12/96
(Bleed) In Dreams All traces of beauty to forget you remember 3/3/23
In Over Our Ears The middle of a kiss might be even more so 5/26/23
I Left in Your Heart You can easily seal that hole 9/13/23
Inequality it keeps life interesting   3/16/04
Insensible unity achieved when five are merged as one 4/1/23
Intending to Love 'As long as I don't realize they are pretending, I'll take it.' 5/1/22
Invasive The title - and closing - track of IntroViolet 7/11/21
Invitation A poem about first meeting   2/26/18
It Was Raining I took some words I wrote in 11/04 and made them into a song 4/20/21
Jagged Depression A report on an experience I had a day or two before   12/7/17
Jealousy a song about 'dancing', remade and remodeled 1/30/23 8/25/95
Just a Little When she's feeling really pretty 4/13/24
Juvenilia Stylistic ramblings in pottery land   10/1/14
kisses a little poem   7/31/00
Lemonfishbutter a song about requited lust from 'Ruins' 12/29/94
Librarian If you know what I mean 9/3/22
Libration Those take two to operate as well 12/7/23
A Life Time A poem about memories   4/20/20
Another Life Time Another poem about memories   4/20/20
Lisa Tonight every woman's named Lisa 7/2/23
Little Things the things don't let a wedge between us 2/14/24
Lonesome (Parts One and Two) ...so much I can't cry 10/20/23
Winter (Lost You To) A song about fearing a terrible loss - and losing 8/25/17
love0 preparing yourself for intimacy - and life   8/2/00
love1 pure love flows through all without aim...   7/13/00
love10 excitement provokes personal emotional cycles   3/27/01
love11 strategy?   5/2/01
love12 a castle, a cage, and a shack   5/14/01
love13 negotiation and vulnerability   5/14/01
love14 diverse relationships and their value   5/30/01
love15 just another rant about our myths and dreams   10/25/01
love16 a few sideways glances at mistakes and pain   8/30/00
love17 why do we want love?   6/6/02
love19 just getting by   1/7/03
love2 why is love so disruptive?   6/26/00
love21 extreme measures best kept in reserve   3/25/03
love22 a little discursion on what love is   11/27/03
love23 Change versus growth   8/3/17
Love A poem about healing and growth   3/5/18
love3 a little bit about the pitfalls of new love   11/25/99
love4 a piece of the puzzle as I was reawakening   10/13/99
love5 an exploration of male sensitivity in our culture   7/7/00
love6 love at a distance   2/8/00
love7 the mythology of love must be changed   8/1/00
love8 some weird stuff about getting to know someone   8/14/00
love9 what do your failures have in common?   8/13/00
Love Comes and Goes Sometimes she comes, sometimes she goes 11/3/22
love diffusion Oh please, release me 10/21/23
Love Song I thought I'd never write... (an improvisation like this) 2/1/23
Love Song Part II Our spirit sings we call our minds 2/15/23
Love Song Part III The only things that keep us alive are our insatiable needs and drive 2/13/23
Love You When (You're Here) A song about the near and dear 3/30/22
Lover's Waltz a song about loss, remade and remodeled 2/1/23 5/5/97
Magic Never Leaves You don't know what I know you want me to need 4/4/23
men a short indirect parody of sexist attitudes   7/25/00
miss_you another little poem...   9/3/01
Moonlight a song about loss   6/5/98
My Lover Midnight A song about a magical garden 3/30/22
My Wildest Dreams The cover of a glossy magazine 2/10/24
It's a New Day Coming All over us this morning 1/1/24
New Ideas Open up my mind with your brave and wonderful new ideas   8/14/22
New Song And when you call again 4/5/24
Nobody Knows a song about neurotic fixation   9/2/97
normal people A song about two of you - or us 1/13/22
not_alone reversal of fortune can be a good thing   1/19/03
Not For Me How to be free 8/1/23
Not So Easy Whatever happened to love? 8/2/23
Of the Conversation Not about mythologies or unadmitted failings 5/13/23
One Day Just to be nice to you 6/15/23
One Love, One Life A pretty little thing that I wrote and sing 1/19/24
One More Time (We Should Be) If you move to me again...
(Previously two separate songs)
11/18/23
One Sail Also about mythologies and our unadmitted failings 5/22/23
otherpeopleisms a few things that made me chuckle   5/22/05
Overture (Fever Dream) The opening for Lost and Found 6/28/18
Pictures (Pirate Party) Overlapping conversations and dessert 10/22/22
Pin-ups All the girls looked like you that night 3/28/23
Plaything I just wanted to feel inside what he's like 12/17/23
Plaything Part Two Why do all men come with a toy? 12/24/23
Pleasure There's something I forgot to say 9/16/22
Preparing to Hide When all we've built is threatened 9/30/22
Primordial Fuse when the eve of life is defective 2/11/23
privacy1 just a few simple words   12/2/99
Private Plains Ape - part number three Another take on our sameness and differences   3/4/21
Private Plains Ape - version one point one A six-page expurgation about learning and coercive socialization   2/9/21
profile eh, what kind of person would you like to meet?   1/21/03
prometheus a harsh and tragic outburst of ego   1/21/03
Prove It (You knew you could) 2/2/24
questions2.htm interviewing versus actually being with   8/17/03
Rather A simple little poem song about light and dark 10/26/22
Requiem It's not going to change a thing 1/12/23
Revolver It's either all or nothing 8/22/22
Right About Now How do you feel? 1/11/24
Romance Is For Others The title track of Victory Is For Lovers 1/14/22
Roses and Coffee The answers are all inside us 8/28/22
Regrets Only My words pale, my eyes tears dried 9/17/23
scars letting the past drown the present   8/16/03
Seared and Maddened A brief poem about connections   8/14/22
sex1 about male roles and repression   7/31/00
sex2 the void in our sexual mores   8/14/00
sex3 for healthy sex...   8/12/00
sex4 some farcical looks at supply and demand   8/28/00
sex5 sex without meaning is...   3/18/01
sex7 evolutionary gender discriminations   5/26/02
sex8 erotica   6/14/02
sex9 pornographica   7/1/02
Shattered A reflection on the nature of some 'broken' people   12/30/17
She Said (She Said) She said I like it, she said 8/30/23
Simplify Your wishes might help you learn to fly 11/6/23
Solitude I'm sure I have touched on this before   2/11/18
Somebody Else's Well a song about infidelity from 'Ruins' 7/7/98
Something ... please sound no alarms 9/19/23
Spring My Love Will Come When, then, where, there, why. How. 4/14/23
stay stay with me in the twinkle of my eye   1/19/03
Strung Out A song about love and beauty. Or drugs. 12/8/20
Succubus Fly by the night of your lights 1/23/23
Teach Me With you within, with you without 7/2/23
Ten Days in March The restless ground yearns to burst forth 3/2/24
The Pain Learning hurts. All learning hurts.   7/14/21
The Tower What is its purpose?   5/21/18
Those Boots One more crack like that and I'll have to... 9/20/22
Time If only life's disorder were rearranged 3/31/23
time3 a little relativistic contrast   11/28/03
Time With Fire Pasts and futures always present 5/3/22
Tomorrow Hope is always the last to die   12/17/17
touch_me a poem, probably part of a suite   4/20/02
Trust an instrumental from 'Ruins' that I made up words for 12/11/02
Strawberry Tuesday A love song. She liked chocolate shortcake. 5/26/21
Unstable Come now in syncromesh 10/15/23
Wait I gave you all of mine 7/13/23
waiting waiting for results: a poem about love and death   10/19/01
Waking Dreams I wish it wasn't always never you 4/21/24
Wanted A briefly gentle sentiment   9/30/21
waves of memory a poem about healing   7/15/02
We Have Never Met It doesn't really matter in space or time to be 10/2/22
What You Got A sinuous song of the night 11/8/20
When She Twists Every one a soft sweet peach 7/12/22
When She's Gone A song about the mysteries of love 11/18/20
When To Sleep A little bit about love with no answers 4/4/22
Who Could Ever Forget? A song about moments of eternity 3/13/22
Who Falls In Love Are you a person... 6/12/22
Why Ask Me You know answers 12/16/22
(Wind Chill) The middle of the night even worse 5/27/23
Winter (Lost You Two) A song that developed out of Lost You To 8/25/17
Without You I am sadder now you're not around 8/19/23
women a two part parody of sexist attitudes   (unknown)
Wouldn't You? Love to love to love 3/26/23
You and Me We go a long way to bind 6/18/23
You Feel Nothing The days go by. 5/2/22
You Have (Mona Lisa) You have the most of all 3/27/24
You Have Been Gone A song about gaps in connections 3/30/22
These Are the Ways There were many tender moments, of course   12/10/17
You Make Me Feel something inside 8/5/23
You Must Be Crazy a song about habit from 'Ruins' June 98
you a little love-type poem   8/21/02
You Want This If you've ever been alive... 11/27/23
You Were There You were there, you were always there 8/17/23
 
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